Wow, what a wonderful holiday I have had sailing around and island hopping!    I have an amazing tan with white bits, as naked, topless bathing is not allowed where I went. 

The sailing was wonderful, and there were some very cute crew on board too!    One night after hours and after one too many pina colada’s we went back to my cabin and have some fun on my bunk.  All I will say is that he had been doing his tongue exercises and that boat rocked    Next day we got off the boat on a secluded beach and managed to swim naked in the warm, warm sea together after checking for jelly fish.  I truly felt I was in paradise and met a lovely new mate too.

I live a full and often hectic life so it is really a necessity for me to get totally away from it all to re-charge, although I still cannot help myself.

Lovemaking Tips For Seniors 
1. Wear your glasses to make sure your partner is actually in the bed.
 
2. Set timer for 3 minutes, in case you doze off in the middle

3. Set the mood with lighting. (Turn them ALL OFF!)
 

4. Make sure you put 999 on your speed dial before you begin.
 
5. Write partner’s name on your hand in case you can’t remember…
 
6. Use extra polygrip so your teeth don’t end up under the bed.
 
7. Have Tylenol ready in case you actually complete the act..
 
8. Make all the noise you want….the neighbors are deaf, too.
 
9. If it works, call everyone you know with the good news!!
 
 10. Don’t even think about trying it twice. .. . . . . . . . . . . . … . . . . . . . . .. . . . … . . . . . . . . .. . .

Wow what a find.  I was out shopping yesterday and browsing in House of Fraser sale.  I found the most adorable leopard print silk suspender belt by Karen Millan.  I just love them so much.  I was actually looking for a new silk dress in bright colours to wear out for dinner tonight.  But could not see anything I liked.

As you know I have mainly always been into black lingerie, but lately, may be because of the summer, I seem to like the animal prints.  They are very classy when worn again light tanned skin and are made of silk.   But unfortunately they did not have the panties to match so trying to source some on line.

I think it would be fun to share this with you as I enjoyed a very naughty lunch time today at a local cafe.

My flat is located along the river so when it is a nice day I like to head down to my coffee bar that has tables and chairs outside in the sun. Today I dressed in one of my brightly coloured skirts. It is  loose and somes just down to the knee, and a silky blue strappy top, run a comb through my hair and put on some lip gloss. That was all.Mmmmmmm I love go out with no panties on, hardly any make-up on - it is so liberating and my little secret.

As I ordered my coffee I was aware of a delightful nakedness beneath my skirt. My eyes flerted with the waiter and he smiled such a wonderful beaming smile at me. I was able to cross and uncross my legs and move around ever so slightly on my chair to remind me of my bareness underneath. It was delightful as every so often I would feel a breeze sneak up between my legs.
Soon I felt warm and moist below and so wonderfully relaxed sitting in the sun watching the people go by.

When I go out with no panties I feel all woman; and like this I actually feel quite powerful. I smile knowingly at men who pass me buy, and they usually smile back at me, do they know? I like to think so. What fun!!!!I am so easily pleased.

The Sanskrit word for the male sexual organ is Lingam and is loosely translated as “Wand of Light.”  The Lingam is a “Wand of Light” for you to have extreme pleasure.

Orgasm is not the goal of the Lingam massage although it can be a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is to massage the Lingam, also including testicles, perineum, allowing you to experience pleasure as never before. From this perspective both receiver and giver relax into the massage.

It says that men need to learn to relax and receive. Traditional sexual conditioning has the man in a doing and goal oriented mode. The Lingam Massage allows the man to experience his softer, more receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional perspective.

Beginning the Massage

I place a small quantity of oil on the shaft of the Lingam and testicles. Begin gently massaging the testicles, being aware that this is a sensitive area.  Then I massage the area above the Lingam, on the pubic bone.  I take my time when massaging the shaft of the Lingam varing the speed and pressure, gently squeezing the Lingam at the base and pull up and sliding my hand off, then alternate with each hand hand. I may change the direction by starting the squeeze at the head of the Lingam and then sliding down and off. Again, alternating with my right and left hands.

By this time you will be in heaven, actually very relaxed but having feelings of great pleasure.  At this stage I will then massage the head of the Lingam, all around the head and shaft.

This massage is given out of trust and intimacy from both the giver and receiver, is not competitive and but a time of total switch off from the out side world – a special time for you.