My very special massage explained

The Sanskrit word for the male sexual organ is Lingam and is loosely translated as “Wand of Light.”  The Lingam is a “Wand of Light” for you to have extreme pleasure.

Orgasm is not the goal of the Lingam massage although it can be a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is to massage the Lingam, also including testicles, perineum, allowing you to experience pleasure as never before. From this perspective both receiver and giver relax into the massage.

It says that men need to learn to relax and receive. Traditional sexual conditioning has the man in a doing and goal oriented mode. The Lingam Massage allows the man to experience his softer, more receptive side and experience pleasure from a non-traditional perspective.

Beginning the Massage

I place a small quantity of oil on the shaft of the Lingam and testicles. Begin gently massaging the testicles, being aware that this is a sensitive area.  Then I massage the area above the Lingam, on the pubic bone.  I take my time when massaging the shaft of the Lingam varing the speed and pressure, gently squeezing the Lingam at the base and pull up and sliding my hand off, then alternate with each hand hand. I may change the direction by starting the squeeze at the head of the Lingam and then sliding down and off. Again, alternating with my right and left hands.

By this time you will be in heaven, actually very relaxed but having feelings of great pleasure.  At this stage I will then massage the head of the Lingam, all around the head and shaft.

This massage is given out of trust and intimacy from both the giver and receiver, is not competitive and but a time of total switch off from the out side world – a special time for you.